Monday, December 8, 2008

SEX~

Guys,
I seriously need your answer, pls leave comments to answer okay?
Pls voice out your views and be honest okay?

1. Would you mind if your wife is not a virgin anymore? Or you fool around with girls but still demand for a virgin wife?


16 comments:

Shin said...

Every guys were different.
This is not a small topic oh... ^^

szelynn said...

it's okay for guys to play around, but it's not ok when their gf/wife are like that. zzz

why is it most guys want only pure girls when they themselves are not even pure

this world is just so unfair! zzzzz

Anonymous said...

This world never be fair...
This is a reality world... XD

- m | r @ k 0 - said...

Catherine... I'm Dennis and 23 years old. Let me tell you about my point of view and for this topic I'll straight forward to you.
sorry if I said anything wrong...

Would you mind if your wife is not a virgin anymore?
ok to me, I dun mind cause you can't turn back time and ask your wife dun have sex with other. What is pass is pass left all behind. Btw I not a play boy and I just give my opinion to you Szelynn. But of course "IF" can still find a wife which is a virgin but I dun think so in this century. And I think you know why...

you fool around with girls but still demand for a virgin wife?
Catherine sorry to say ok... If that person really want that way playing around with girl and wan a virgin wife. Pls tell him to *uck himself!

Catherine honest to say and sorry to say too.. If your bf or the one tat you like act that way pls stop loving them now. Cause I think you deserve a better life. Trust me...
dun love who is blind

To: Szelynn...
Dun say guy act that way ok.. not all guy were like that ok... I'm a guy and me myself also dun support boy can have sex around. Btw pls do find another bf if your bf think that way.. cause they only take you for granted!!! pls wake up girl! stand for your own!

~Catherine's imperfect life~ said...

Shin: This is a debatable topic!

Sze lynn: Yea, some of the guys are like that. The world is always unfair. nothing's fair. what the fuck!

Anonymous: This is a stupid world! Uh...

Dennis: Don't worry, I don't have a bf like that. Yea you are right, you can't ask ur wife to make a turn back not to have sex last time. Just accept her for who she is.
Who says you can't find a virgin wife in this world? I think there are still a lot. hehe INCLUDING ME!!! PROUD OF IT. lol....
Ai ya, for those who fool around with girls but still demand for virgin wife, I cant tell them to fuck off as they wont listen to me.. so I will just ignore and go away.. hehehe.....

AND YEA I M A FEMINIST, I WONT ALLOW MY HUSBAND OR BF TO ACT LIKE THAT TO ME! OR ELSE i WOULD BE THE ONE WHO FUCKS HIM! HAHAAHAHHAA

Tee said...

Surely i also hope my wife is a virgin..
but however if she really not virgin and i think i cant do anythings and me and my wife also still have 1st time, what 1st time? 1st time sex with her, it also call 1st time right?^^
and i will try to leave my 1st time to my wife also ~~~^^

~Catherine's imperfect life~ said...

Tee: Good boy, please leave ur first time for ur wife if you want your wife to be a virgin. find a pure girl lu....
wish you luck ya!

- m | r @ k 0 - said...

It good catherine the way you think...But I can tell your from my experience it hard to find someone that is virgin and that include guy and women. seriously and may be you all still young but you all will grow when time come...

Tee: I really hope you can find one!
haha... all the best...

~Catherine's imperfect life~ said...

Hehe, I am not sure whether I m able to keep till that age:( I will try my best anyway:P

- m | r @ k 0 - said...

Hmm... Cat, just remember if u think he is worth your everything and you think he is the one for you then is ok. sex is something everyone should experience with their love one BUT of course before you plan to enjoy think twice 1st!!! hehe... cheer!!!

szelynn said...

hey dennis haahahaa nope i wasnt saying all guys are like that. but most of them are like that right? but yea i agree there are still a few of guys who don't think that way, and that includes you =) glad to know that there are still guys like that in this world. hehe

oh ya by the way love is blind. if my bf were to think that way i wouldnt be able to do anything also hehe

and hey anonymous! who the heck are you lol hahahahaha

- m | r @ k 0 - said...

Szelynn I didn't blame you for it so dun worry and I really have to admit most of them are like that and same goes to SOME girl as well. And thank you szelynn for not include me into that group! haha...
thank... I do agree love is blind but if your bf is acting that way then pls advise him and to stop it.
GRILS!!! Szelynn pls stand out for your own right! It 21 century now and guy & women are same position now. Why you need a bf that sleeping around with other girl and you are the 1 suffer? Pls wake up... Dun because of 1 tree, you give up the whole forest! and I think you should know what I mean... Like for me, I also need a gf that have her own thinking and decision. Hope you all understand what I mean... Chill...

~Catherine's imperfect life~ said...

[guy & women are same position now.]

I totally love this!! what the heck! I love!!! Yea, guys needs sex, girls need too! we are born with sexual desire! why are there still inane people who criticize non-virgins but not guys who fool around with girls?

- m | r @ k 0 - said...

WOw. cat you really grow up dee... more mature yo! It good you know.
and thank for agree with me.
Szelynn... same goes to you ok!
chao and good luck everyone!

max-oasism said...
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max-oasism said...

virgin or not is not important,
what i think important is the value and personal standing in life in SEX matter.

for me i don't mind if my future wife is not virgin, if she has done sex with so many people and keep her pride high.

i think the question here is not mind or mind about it, to go deeper, whats the definition of sex to you?

for instance, sex to me communicating, get intimate, know each other better, cross boundary to a step further, exploring, exposing nakedly and the feeling of love must be high enough, not lust as priority.

i do agree with szelynn, most of my friends that are clubing kaki, playboy and sex maniac are looking for girls which is virgin. but the case is not applied on every guy that view the matter.

virgin girls are not hard to find at all, they are everywhere, you just don't know cause you haven't sleep with her. or some may be rumors, but rumors can be trusted all the time?

the pride of girls that are still virgin doesn't seems to be practiced much anymore, some of my friends virgin to be frank has gone out of curiosity. curiosity kills the cat.

somehow, virgin or not is not my main concern, my main concern is when she is with me, then its better she doesn't lay with other guy, while she is not my gf, i don't mind, that's her right, she can do what ever she want as long as she knows her own doing. of course, being with me does not equal to be bound with me, faithfully plays the relationship game.

sex is a need, no matter you acknowledge or not ever since after your private organ is ready for it. why after 21 only can have sex? the rules go like this because, they think that time only we know how to decide when to play save and make genuine choice, well that's to me is bullshit cause adult also make mistake, a lot of divorce and while others have multiparty sex.

sex is a very strong words for courage people, especially women that i know 'sacrifice' their pride.

to me, make it simple, sex is a need, choosing partner has to be wise, although it can be other than my gf while i am not in relationship, i just make sure that its my right choice in security matter of health and privacy. while in relationship, its better stick to one, and only one. sex is an individual matter as well,if the person doesn't go for couple.